Refuse to Compete
- Matt Davies
- May 14
- 2 min read
“We don’t do that.”
It sounds like a wall. But for smart brands, it’s a door - one that opens to focus, growth, and differentiation.
If your brand strategy doesn’t tell me who you don’t serve or what you won’t do, then it’s not a strategy. It’s just a shopping list with no basket.
Too many brands chase relevance in all directions. The result? A blurry image in the minds of customers. Vague. Forgettable. Optional. Real brand power doesn’t come from doing everything - it comes from doing less, better, and with ruthless intent.
This is why positioning is the sharpest strategic tool in the box.

Good positioning is exclusionary by design. Think of McDonald’s. It serves the hungry, the hurried, the casual. It doesn’t try to woo the fine-dining crowd. That’s not a failure - it’s precision. And that precision scales.
When you say, “We don’t do that,” you’re not closing doors — you’re building walls around your value, and inviting in the right people with clarity and conviction.
But here's the real kicker: you don’t need to beat your competitors. In fact, the best brands often step out of the race entirely.
We’re taught to compete - to win share, outsmart rivals, dominate categories. But that’s not strategy. That’s insecurity wearing a spreadsheet.
Great brands don’t attack. They ascend.
They find a unique place to stand and serve - and then own it completely. They’re not threatened by competitors; they admire them. They understand that markets work more like ecosystems than battlefields. And in ecosystems, the most successful species aren’t the most aggressive - they’re the most fit for purpose.
So if you’re building a brand - especially in emerging or chaotic spaces like Web3 — ask yourself a better question:
Who are we not building this for?
That’s not about turning people away. It’s about building something so clear, so resonant, that it speaks directly to the people who matter most - and lets everyone else self-select out.
Because that’s what strong brands do. They don’t compete. They commit.
Brand strategy isn’t about fighting harder. It’s about choosing smarter. It’s about refusing to get pulled into someone else’s game. And instead, designing your own.
Start there. And grow with intent.